as my wedding date gets closer i no longer feel the excitement a bride should have instead i feel so unhappy and sorry for my dad..everybody wants a share of my father’s savings right from my mother in law to the function hall owner , right from abbulu to photographer and right from juja to the lighting-decoration-flowers arrangement fellow..my dad’s hard earned money and his savings of 30 years are all gone in 3 days like blown with the wind 😦
in addition to paying everyone – the caterers, the wedding hall, the decorators, the travel agents, the photographers, the jewelers, the return gifts etc etc ( a never ending list) …as abbulu’s family increase the wish-list for perks&allowances my dad & mom have squeeze from under their nose to keep everyone happy.
my mother thought tht during her wedding the things will change for her daughter’s wedding..but i dont’ think things are gonna change for my daughter’s wedding..abbulu at least for once i wish we have a son and not a daughter to save u from the the pinch of being looted by the world
they only say ..kuthuraina kodukaina okkate…but it is never the same at least when it comes to the wedding…i hope to see a bright and beautiful day when the wedding expenses are shared equally …am sorry daddy..i wish i had some money…i already gave u all i have 😦